DUHAI HATI....

saya bukanlah orang pandai bermadah...untuk sekian lamanya saya paling banyak bertahan dengan seribu macam dugaan yang mendatang...dalam bentuk apa sekalipun peribadi  atau kerjaya sekalipun....acapkali kesabaran saya diuji.....saya hilang kawalan diri..emosi terganggu..saya rasakan ini normal bagi seorang wanita seperti saya.....Allah sayangkan aku ...itulah pujukan ke hati nurani saya...


Tapi janganlah sebut tentang anak, emak di hadapan saya....mudah saja airmata saya berguguran...kerana inilah ujian yang saya paling takuti....Terlintas dalan hati saya..Allah telah mengurniakan saya dengan lima orang puteri yang sungguh istimewa..apalah pula ujiannya nanti...emak pula orang sangat penting dalam hidup ini....bila pula Allah akan memanggilnya & diwaktu itu nanti sudahkan aku bersedia...Dan Allah akan menguji kita walau dalam keadaan apa sekalipun.....


jadi saya hargai apa yg Allah berikan kepada saya.......ALHAMDULILLAH...all praises to Allah...

Water water everywhere...

It rained heavily yesterday.....and within half an hour my house was flooded...I just could not complained as I always thought there were more unfortunate people out there who could be in a much worse situation....

My instinct told me that something bad might happened as the rain was too heavy with wind, lightning and thunder roared across the sky....Immediately my other half who was in the house hekped around as I woke the children to help out as well....

At a time like this nothing much could be done, we just waited patiently for the water to subside...the hardwork came after as there were plenty of clean-ups to be done...Everything completed around 8.00 pm....the we sat down for a simple dinner over 'pasar malam' food...we savour every little bit...phewww what a night

The ABC of Parenting

Throughout the years of beinag a parent to 5 beautiful girls...there were no clear cut guidelines as to how I should be a great Mom...it is always a little bit of this and a little bit of that....I also learnt a lot from my own mother ,,,or from various resources,,,most of the time going back to the teachings of Islam....now that is a real challenge...but  this little poem here really inspires me...so enjoy reading...

The Abc of Parenting

Ask your child about the school day

Begin your child's day with anourishing breakfast

Congratulate your child for doing well

Discuss homework with your child

Encourage your child to read

Find a quiet place for your child to study

Give your child responsibility

Hug your child to build self worth

Include your child in making simple family decisions

Join a library with your child

Keep your child on a schedule that includes exercise and sleep

Limit TV viewing by selecting programs with your child

Make the time you spend with your child special

Notice and discuss changes in your child's behaviour

Offer to help your child organize school papers

Provide your child with good role models

Question the activities your child shares with friends

Respect your child's right to have opinions different from yours

Share an interest or a hobby with your child

Take time to listen to your child

Urge your child to say 'No' to unwanted touching

Visit places of interest with your child

Work with your child to set up rules of behaviour

Xerox and save records or articles that benefit your child

Yield results by encouraging your child to do better

Zoom through these ABC's again and again....

One fine day....

Finally... I have time for myself......wow, there are a lot of things to be completed ...though it may be the least favourite job on earth when it comes to filing....but I always putting others in my shoes...what if  whoever that will replace me in the future have to find some important documents....?? what if they were this and they were that...


Contrary to popular belief, teachers in my school normally would stay back until 5 pm....what do we do?? A lot...there are extra classes, co-curricular activities, completing personal files, and the list goes on and on....


Oh well.... what a boring discussion....enough...here is a more important issues...SHOULD WE RETURN TO ENGLISH FOR MATHS AND SCIENCES...??? As an English teacher I am very positive about this...my children are used to the language...they are very comfortable with Englsih  because in my household English is often used ,,,but my heart goes to those who are in the remote area like Ulu Tembeling for example....how are they going to adapt to the language...


That is my cup of tea with you...

Just Getting Started...

Assalamulaikum semua...& selamat datang ke blog ini....with the help from my daughter Zinneerah this blog reappears...never knew I had one before back in 2005...well probably it was more like a trial & error back then.....

So ..what's up..? A lot actually...when it comes to education, specifically career wise this is the path that I have taken for the past 11 years or so....to compare to others...i'm quite new..in this field..age wise...probably not.

There we are in the midst of catching up with what's going in the world of education, grades, NKRA, achieving the  vision and mission of KPM..Pre- University, High Performance School...and so forth....
Perhaps with all the hoo-hah of all these...we still not forgetting the real core business,, to teach, to educate...you name it...thinking what our children might be fall short of if we keep busy with all the unncessary (well, that's how i feel) things bring tears to my eyes....

but then again ..this is just a cup of tea that I want to share with all of you...